A Brotherly Salute
Carson Smith, a very traditional kind of guy, knew that his younger unconventional brother Robin deserved a send-off that reflected how he lived. He asked Flanner and Buchanan’s staff to create one for him.
Dressed in modest Harley wear, Carson welcomed more than three hundred of “Robo’s” (Robin’s) friends to his memorial service. Setting the mood for the memorial event was not any easy task but was accomplished with the assistance of family, friends and the Flanner and Buchanan team. Everything went off like clockwork.
To accomplish its goal our team transformed our entire Broad Ripple facility; complete with full buffet and bar. Robo’s Harley collection was displayed on chairs, stairs, and tables throughout the building. From shirts to mugs, friends were encouraged to take a piece of Robo with them as they left. Three hours of continuous hugs, laughter and stories ensued. Rarely, have I enjoyed myself so much.
Yes, I said enjoyed. From 8 p.m. to approximately 10 p.m. Carson, Robo’s older conservative brother, set the tone for everyone in attendance. I emphasize that point because Carson stepped out way beyond his own grief with the assistance of funeral director Andy Clayton, the Flanner and Buchanan team, and his family. Carson shared stories of Robin as a younger brother, as a college misfit, and as an unconventional community spirit.
Over several hours Carson opened the microphone to family and friends to learned how much “Robo” had impacted people’s lives. I was one of those people and as I listened, I could feel “Robo” grinning and nodding from above - still dressed in his Harley leather. Carson certainly received a gift from the unique cast of characters gathered at the event. He learned that his brother fully respected and loved him. Carson repeatedly heard that “Robo” valued his opinion and counted on him to be there if and when he needed him. Flanner and Buchanan had helped Carson say good-bye to his parents and now good-bye to his only brother. I believe he’s come to view Andy Clayton as an extension of his own family.
Thanks to everyone for helping me say good-bye!
Author – Barb Milton is the Vice President of Community Relations for Buchanan Group, Inc. Barb’s extensive industry background makes her a preferred guest speaker throughout the country regarding final expense decisions.
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