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Beyond the Roses, Show You Care in a Meaningful Way

Years ago, when my little sisters died, neighbors pulled together to reassure our family that we were not alone.  The members of our church came over and brought food, coworkers from my dad’s office sent flowers. Years later when my mother died, neighbors sent notes and flowers.  My dad’s coworkers made donations to the Cancer Society and the church members added us to their prayer list.  When my brother died at 25 in a motorcycle accident everyone seemed to rally at the service.  The funeral home was overloaded with flowers coordinated by the local florist.  My brother didn't attend a local church and truthfully didn’t know his neighbors.  His wife of a year and a half was totally unprepared to make decisions, let alone delegate what to do with over a hundred floral arrangements!

 

 

In a day and age where life runs via email, cell phone, and Facebook pages, there are still some creative solutions available to show you care when family, a friend or a coworker dies.

Did you know you can order food online, create a custom blanket from a cherished family photo, or have a special piece of jewelry affordably created in someone’s honor? Our staff will gladly help you create something special.  You can also check out our service options and even order a meal at www.flannerbuchanan.com.

 

 

Want to do something extra special?  Wait a few weeks and offer to help sort through things that the deceased let behind.  Pull together as friends and go on a trip. Plant a tree or something else living that will last the test of time within your community.  Grief doesn’t disappear in a few days.  Show you understand and stay involved.